If you are banning IP addresses using Fail2ban, there is little need to unban them (unless you ban yourself accidentally). So I always set my ban time to infinite:
[DEFAULT] # "ignoreip" can be an IP address, a CIDR mask or a DNS host ignoreip = 127.0.0.1/8 yourip anotheripyouuse bantime = -1 maxretry = 3
The key here was to set
bantime to a negative number. You might be interested in my post on parsing Fail2ban logs.